What is a Hopeless Romantic

March 27, 2007 by Adam  
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Hopeless Romantic

Many people may wonder what a hopeless romantic is, but for the ones who are a hopeless romantic, it is all too obvious.  So I am going to try and break it down.

There are more examples of a hopeless romantic than I can name and most of them are from movies.  So in that sense, a hopeless romantic dreams of the fantasy’s that are played out perfect in a movie.  Rational people would say that movies are fake and that no one really has a relationship like “The Notebook“, “A Walk to Remember“, “Titanic “, etc.  But to a hopeless romantic it is perfectly logical that a movie scenario could happen in real life, because it is physically possible maybe not plausible though. 

I believe that in reality if a hopeless romantic played things out like a movie does, then it would be very likely that both people in the relationship would enjoy the scenario. 

People are skeptical of the idea of movie style love, because it is too good to be true and it takes way to much work to have the world turn like a movie.  I totally disagree with the sceptics, because hopeless romantics thrive on the challenge to make a relationship magical.

Hopeless Romantics are great at imagining the perfect scenario’s, but often fail at executing the scenario because of the magic that needs to be present.  So much of a hopeless romantics vision is being with the perfect person in the perfect situation.  So a hopeless romantic may go unrecognized because the situation or person is not perfect.  A Hopeless romantic is continuously striving to find their night in shining armor or princess to carry off to the beach to cuddle under a moon lit sky. 

A Hopeless romantic get’s excited by the fact that they have so much energy to love the perfect person.  It would be safe to say that a hopeless romantic greatly values completely giving themselves up to the one that they love.  When that perfect person comes the energy will flow like water down a waterfall with the only incentive being to make their partner feel overjoyed with excitement.  It is really the art of romancing that they love.

Being a hopeless romantic may lead to unnecessary agony while trying to find that perfect person, but the dream of having a “Happily every after” life is so great that any heartache is small compared to the joy one gets from the adventure of being a hopeless romantic.

Hopeless Romantic’s will love my list of 40 creative things to do on a date.  This is what hopeless romantics do.  They dream up sceneries and in my case I write down scenarios so I don’t forget them.

If you like this story, send it to people, share it and link to it, because I believe so strongly is the idea of being a hopeless romantic, that I am setting a goal to be #1 on Google under “Hopeless Romantic”, just for S*its and giggles.

Bookmark this page for updates to “Hopeless romantic” examples from movies and for further information on how to be a better hopeless romantic.

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12 Comments on "What is a Hopeless Romantic"

  1. Jeff on Tue, 27th Mar 2007 11:25 pm 

    I find the best way to talk with someone or spark up a conversation is simply to be yourself. If the person does not appreciate what you have to offer as a human being then what is the point in bothering with them, because they are hot? negative.

    Jeff

  2. L on Wed, 28th Mar 2007 2:26 am 

    I think I’m somewhat of a closet hopeless romantic…it’s a lovely notion, but just not practical. And the whole waiting around for “the one” is just so futile.

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  7. Anton on Fri, 11th May 2007 9:02 pm 

    I’ll see if I can help buddy. Sorry to not have seen this sooner.
    I will see if my friend over at 1millionlovemessages will help you out as well.

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